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Got after school plans?

The school day can feel long and draining for children, and sometimes even longer for parents waiting to reconnect after hours apart. Between homework, activities, and the bustle of family life, it’s easy to miss those golden opportunities to truly connect. But intentional traditions and small daily choices can transform the after-school rush into a time of meaningful relationship.

One of the simplest ways to connect is through shared activities. Read a book together. Cook dinner as a team. Head outside for yard work or even turn it into a water balloon fight on warmer evenings. These moments don’t have to be elaborate; they simply need to be consistent.

Creating rhythms builds memories. A weekly family movie night, a rotating game night, or even something as simple as a drive to grab slushies after school can give kids something to look forward to. Around the dinner table, practice “highs and lows,” where each family member shares the best part of their day and the hardest part. Parents included. Families who eat dinner together regularly often find stronger communication and closer connections.

Traditions anchor families. A Saturday hot breakfast of pancakes, bacon, and eggs might seem ordinary, but in the heart of a child it becomes extraordinary—a memory they’ll carry into adulthood.

Connection also grows when distractions are minimized. Establishing a “no phone zone” when everyone is home creates a space of peace where relationships matter most. The message is clear: people come before screens.

For families with multiple children, consider a rotating “date night” with each child. One couple I know takes out one child per week, giving that child one-on-one attention. Mom gets the final week to reset before starting the rotation again. These intentional pauses remind kids they are seen and valued as individuals.

Simplifying household routines can also free up more time for connection. Meal planning reduces the stress of dinnertime. Streamlining laundry routines lightens the load. Saying “no” to outside obligations makes room to say “yes” to family.

At the end of the day, it’s not about perfection. It’s about presence. Small choices—done consistently—builds that home sweet home we all think when we step on that doormat every day.

Rachel Redlin is a columnist, author, journalist, and award-winning radio host. She lives in Northwest Kansas with her husband and five children, where she writes about faith, food, and the simple everyday life. Want to read more or contact us? You can subscribe to the FREE newsletter at www.simplybloominggrace.com

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